I’m going to make this as quick as possible! I hope it benefits at least one person.
BEING A VIRGIN ISN’T LAME!!! and BEING A VIRGIN ISN’T OVER RATED!!!
Clearly in this day and age, virginity isn’t something that is looked at as cool especially, since you don’t have that many people who talk about being virgins in the lime light. You find these people mainly in religious settings, so you have to search harder.
Here’s my thing, if you’re a virgin for whatever reason; spiritual, fear or lack of opportunity. There’s nothing to be ashamed about. If you want to lose it before marriage, that’s on you, just make sure you’re doing it for you and on your terms.
However, I want to focus on people who want to stay virgins till marriage for religious reasons. I know a lot of people still have these standards and it’s really hard to be one of those people nowadays as sex is literally put in everyone’s faces; however, the journey is filled with difficulty and temptation but it’s definitely possible and worth it at the end.
There’s so much I want to say about this, but I won’t, but remember your commitment to wait till marriage is with God (not a man or a woman). So don’t let up just because you think you’ve found the one, the true one will wait with you and for you.
In conclusion, to me, being a virgin is commendable, it’s beautiful and it shows discipline, strength and perseverance. I believe true love will admire all these qualities and would want to encourage you to stay committed to the cause all the way.
I know this is very different from the usual, but it’s been weighing on my heart for a minute now. Bare with me lol